Hi..Today, I want to share about something that can become a lesson to everyone...(based on my opinion la..hehehe) why do I say so?? Let's us read the entry okay..but, before that..we need to smile...because smile is one of the alms(sedekah). =))
Have you ever felt betrayed by the person that you trust? love? friend? or whoever around you..
This is based on the true story..a friend of mine have gone through this situation...let me story it to you...Her name was Belle ( not a real name). He had a boyfriend named Edward (not a real name too). They have been in love for a few months, I think about 11 months. They were studying in the campus. At the beginning of their relationship, they really had a beautiful, romantic and lovely relationship that most of the people in their campus always talked about them. However, on the 6th month, they broke up because of some reasons. But then it can last for a week only, then they returned back together. This was because they said that they love each other, missed each other and the reason that they broke up because both of them were really ego.
Then, they were normal like before. However, this man, Edward, was so different form the other men that Belle had ever known. He was a person who rarely texts her girlfriend, busy with his friend and he had a high ego in himself. Belle was a person who loves her boyfriend to be with her, care about her, love her, text her, and so on. She did mentioned this to her boyfriend and her boyfriend did tell her that both of them had different personality and behavior. Both of the were so different. However, what made them together was a LOVE. Even though they have so many differences but they have LOVE that tight them together. Belle tried to accept him and Edward tried to accept Belle.
Even though her boyfriend rarely asked her to hang out like before, rarely texts her, but she was very patient in it. She said to herself that Edward was so busy, he had got a lot of things to do. Thus, she didn't want to bother him and she believed in him so much. Belle's friend noticed that situation happened to her and asked her why was that so? Belle told them the truth about that and she said she was fine and their relationship was in a good condition. She was a strong young girl as she could stand with that situation where all of her friend would say that her boyfriend has got someone else. But, she ignored all that because she BELIEVED in Edward.
There was one moment where Belle couldn't stand it anymore. She called Edward and asked why did he do that to her. Why did he rarely texts her, care about her and so on. Edward said to her that he was not her husband yet, and he could do anything that he wanted to do, and he told Belle to do that too because they were not married yet. He said that he did not mind. By the time Belle heard that sentences came out from his mouth, her tears dripping out. She cried. But, Edward didn't care about that and he said that he got works to do.
At this moment too, Belle was strong and she didn't want to ruin their relationship. Thus, she let it go. Time passed and there was a time where Edward asked Belle to hang out with him. This was happened on the 9th month of their relationship. Edward asked Belle to go out with him and his friends. Edward wanted to bring Belle to a hill and some places where they can spend their time with. At first, Belle refused to go with him because she had a good reason to come out with.The reason was that week was an examination week. Thus, she didn't want to go because she wanted to study and all that. However, Edward said that if she didn't want to go, she didn't love him and they wouldn't be able to go out after this. It was like he threatened Belle to go. At last, Belle agreed to go.
When they were together, Edward said that he loved Belle and he wanted to be serious with her. Belle remembered that moment so much because he said that he would never forget the moment that they had spend with. It was their good time together and after that moment, their relationship returned back to normal. Edward texts Belle everyday and he said he loved Belle so much.
Next, on the 10th month, it was a school holiday. Each of them went back to their hometown and spent their time with their family. There was one day that Belle remembered the most, where Edward said that they would have married before they end their semester. It seems like Edward was so serious with Belle. Belle was so happy and she was very serious with her relationship.
Then, when they returned back to their campus, their relationship became more worst. Edward told Belle that he was so busy and he didn't want Belle to disturb him. Belle tried to understood Edward and she was suffer from it. However, she was a smart girl that she didn't want that to influence her life so much. Thus, she spent most of her time with her friends and put trust on Edward. It means that Belle still wanted that relationship because of the LOVE that they had.
One day, while Belle was surfing the internet , one of Edward's classmates chat with her. It was a girl and her name was Miranda. She said to Belle whether Belle was in a good condition or not. Belle said that she was okay and why did Miranda asked her that. Miranda answered Belle that lately she noticed Belle was not in a good condition where Belle always looked sad. Miranda asked Belle's relationship with Edward and Belle said that her relationship was in a good condition. Belle lied to her because she didn't want to tell anybody about her private life. Belle was wrong. Miranda knew more than Belle knew. Miranda told Belle that Edward had got someone else already and that girl was the same class with him. Belle was so shocked to hear that news and she was totally terrible at that time where she couldn't believe that this was happening to her. Miranda told her everything except the Edward's new girlfriend.
Belle immediately asked Edward about that and he denied it. He told Belle that he couldn't be with Belle anymore because of his parents didn't like a person who was a far away from them. He gave Belle that reason. He said to Belle that his mother was his priority and he hope that Belle knew it. But, he was a BIG liar. He didn't want to tell Belle that he has got someone else and he denied it to Belle. He said that he was truly in love with Belle and the reason they couldn't be together because of his parents. That's all. Belle cried a lot at that time. Belle couldn't believe that this happened to her. How could he did that to Belle. He was a coward man. That was why their relationship was so terrible before because he had someone else. Edward never admitted that he had someone else at that time.
Belle was sad and she didn't want to know who was the girl he with now. Thus, she wanted to be alone and she didn't want him to disturb heranymore. He is a COWARD person.
One moth passed, and a friend of her form other class told herthat the girl he was now was his own classmate and she was his close friend too. The news made belle feel like she wanted to fainting. She couldn't believe that this was happen to her.
How can he be with his own classmate where he was in a relationship with Belle?? And the girl also knew that Edward was in a realtionship with Belle and how could she did that too. Both of them betrayed Belle so much.The girl, Belle trusted the most and she never thought that she would do that to Belle. All this time Belle respect her and treat her like Belle own friend. And now, she was with Edward. It was like hell. Belle was being fooled by them.
Belle was weak. Belle was a young girl. She didnt know where to find her courage. She tried to live in the campus. At last, she made her decision,she didnt event want to bother about anything that was happening in the campus about the students. The most important thing was that Edward would be her first and the last person that she loved in that campus. No more guys after him because this matter had teach her a lot and it had became a huge lesson for her.She accepted it with her full heart open because she believed that everything came from Allah. He was the one who made this to happen and she accepted it. She never angry at that girl or fight with her because she believed that there was no use for it. She didn't want to fight with a girl because of a man. PLEASE.. She was not a type of girl who wanted to fight for a man. A man that was a COWARD, not GENTLEMAN, and LAZY. She would never fight for a man like that. A man that didn't even know how to appreciate a girl. Why would she? After all he had done to her, she became strong.
She would say thank you to the COWARD man, that is Edward and his girlfriend because of making this horrible matter happened to her. Thanks a lot yeah!!!..and now.. Belle lived in a peace situation, a nice, wonderful, interesting without him. She had learnt a lot from it. She wanted to pass her degree with flying colours and dint want to think about man anymore because she believed that she would meet her prince later on and now she wanted to focus more on her study and became a great person in the future. The past experience had made her became a more matured person. Thanks Allah.
# This is based on the true story that a friend of mine told me everything about it. She told me because she believed in me and she really wanted me to share this story so that it can be a lesson for anyone that is kindly to go through this situation. No hard feeling. It is just a story. chills yeah #
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